Don't allow yourself to be distracted by other people, your phone, or what's happening around you.
A better understanding of the subculture will help you to be respectful of her beliefs.
Still, the goth would prefer to stand separate from the relentless cheer enforced by everything from inspirational Instagram posts to daily retail transactions, and so they attain an emotional remove that places them out on a figurative misty moor.
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Emily Sears and her sexy Freddy costume was a better choice.
There's no rule book stating you have to wear a certain style of clothing, behave a certain way, or listen to a certain band to identify as a goth.